Norm and Selles: Our Amazing Journey

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          The Night the Lights Went Out in Texas

Selles:   Hi. I see you have clicked on the next page. I guess I should tell you the next part.  Norm sent me to the best doctors in Houston at the Kelsey Seybold Clinic.  The doctor there did some tests and I went back a few days later to get the news.  He told me that I had  a disease called "Hepatitis non-A non-B".  He told me to rest, eat a low protein diet and take one shot a week for a year.

  I sailed through the year without any problems and actually felt better.  I went for my last appointment and he told me that I was "cured".  Of course, that drug was Interferon and it would not kill the virus.  All the time the virus was slowly  eating away at my liver. Plus I was drinking occasionally and taking ES Tylenol by the bottles full because of the lasting horrible pain in my back from 2 previous back surgeries.

I started my old schedule at double the pace. Finally, Norm and I were living the kind of life we hoped. We were so happy and our days were like "Disneyland" and all our nights covered with a million stars and soft moonlight. We lived moment to moment. One Saturday we got in the car to go for a short drive and ended up in Nuevo Laredo, Mexico; a 10 hr drive. We stayed for the weekend seeing the sites and shopping in the huge markets.  Other times we would drive 3 1/2 hrs to a casino in Kinder, La. We lived as though it would last forever.

Forever turned out to be a little over a year. Then the same old tired, nauseated feeling started coming back.  I don't know to this day what made me first fthink like I did, but I was overcome with a feeling that I would not live long enough to buy an RV and travel the US  whenI was 60 or 65. retire. We enjoyed adventure and I knew I wanted to make enough memories to last a life time.

I didn't go back to the doctor because I didn't want to know the truth. I was content in my feelings.    One day I came home and announced to Norm that I had quit my job.  He very calmly said "ok". Then I really hit him with a whopper.  I told him I wanted to sell the house. Again, his quiet nature came through as he asked "what are we going to do then dear" ?

I explained my feelings and told him I wanted to travel all over the US. We put the house on the market the next day. That was October of 1995. The house sold on February 14, 1996.   

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